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WTF is Pleasure Even?
When we think about pleasure, it often gets narrowly defined by societal norms, commonly linked to fleeting moments of indulgence or...
Emily Gay
Dec 2, 20243 min read
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How Masturbation Can Calm Your Nervous System
Imagine if there was a tool we all innately possessed that could help regulate our nervous system while also bringing us pleasure. Surprise,
Emily Gay
Aug 2, 20242 min read
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Making the Most of Pride
How to Engage with LGBTQ+ Events and Activities Pride is here, and you know what that means: events galore! You could easily find a...
Emily Gay
Jun 7, 20242 min read
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Masturbation in Relationships: Is It Cheating?
Humans like to touch their private parts. So much so that we have entire months dedicated to the celebration of masturbation (yay...
Emily Gay
May 24, 20242 min read
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A Beginner's Guide to Choosing the Perfect Vibrator
Did you know that using vibrating toys for masturbation is scientifically proven to enhance pleasure?
Emily Gay
May 18, 20243 min read
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How To Pleasure The Vulva and Vagina
I don't know about you, but when it came to understanding vulva and vagina pleasure, I could not find a complete guide anywhere. The...
Emily Gay
May 10, 20243 min read
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Masturbation and Mental Wellness: The best ways to celebrate this May
Discover how to elevate your self-pleasure practice to mindful masturbation.
Emily Gay
May 3, 20243 min read
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Want Better Sex? Communicate.
Learn how to have better sex through communication and stepping into the unknown.
Emily Gay
Apr 29, 20242 min read
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How To Finger A Vulva: 3 Guides to Success
Explore my three guides to becoming a fingering pro
Emily Gay
Apr 19, 20242 min read
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The Positive Impacts of Sexuality Education
There is an ongoing debate surrounding sexual education, with differing perspectives clashing over what is deemed "appropriate" or...
Emily Gay
Apr 15, 20242 min read
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Exploring How Sexuality Education Enhances Desire
Desire is a powerful force that drives intimate connections and nurtures satisfying relationships. Given its crucial role in our sexual...
Emily Gay
Apr 5, 20243 min read
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A Comprehensive Guide to Sexuality Education
Less than 20 states require medically accurate sexuality education in schools. That number should scare you. Before becoming a sexuality...
Emily Gay
Mar 29, 20242 min read
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Is it called Vagina or Vulva?
How the American Education system has failed us. It’s the vulva, not the vagina. When I first discovered that the correct term for the...
Emily Gay
Mar 23, 20242 min read
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Pleasure Mapping
A Journey to Deeply Satisfying Sex Pleasure. Pleasure. Pleasure. It is the cornerstone of every conversation about sex - a goal that we...
Emily Gay
Mar 15, 20242 min read
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Normalizing Female Pleasure
Women's History Lessons with Emily Women's History I wish I could offer a more lighthearted introduction to this history lesson, but the...
Emily Gay
Mar 10, 20242 min read
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Women's history month
Embracing the Erotic with Audre Lorde Erotic: relating to or tending to arouse sexual desire or excitement. As Black History Month slides...
Emily Gay
Mar 7, 20241 min read
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Ask Emily Anonymously
Q+A for sex/taboo topics You can not shock me Do not be afraid that your question is inappropriate or awkward. Sex feels taboo because...
Emily Gay
Feb 23, 20241 min read
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Exploring the Differences Between Kinks and Fetishes
Understanding Sexual Diversity Kinks and Fetishes Misconceptions and ambiguity frequently arise in discussions about personal...
Emily Gay
Feb 15, 20242 min read
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Biological Sex is a Myth
Gender Identity is not based on your Genitalia "Female, or Male, that is the (wrong) Question" This might come as a surprise, but gender...
Emily Gay
Feb 8, 20242 min read
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Exploring the Adult Industry
My week at XBiz In between the usual whirlwind of my travels and clients, an intriguing invitation was offered to me: an opportunity to...
Emily Gay
Feb 1, 20242 min read
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